woman who love men that molest

My ex-step mom is mad at me for telling on my father. She doesn't believe he molested me. He stole her house and almost made her homeless and yet she still wants to honor him? Is this what my problem has been all these years? People being loyal to abusers? Is this where I learned to keep secrets about people who have harmed me? Well, Pat, he did molest me and I don't care what you believe! You can kiss my ass!